DO YOU KNOW YOUR PERSONALITY TYPE?
One of the top things that influence how we behave is our personality. Our surroundings, experiences, and unique ambitions all have an impact on our behavior, though.
With this infographic, we discuss the typical behaviors of persons who fit a particular personality type.
This post is not meant to be considered as gospel; rather, it is meant to encourage personal growth and a better knowledge of who you are and how you behave in romantic relationships.
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SINGLES SUMMIT 2023: WHAT MEN WANT IN WOMEN
When I go to the club, I see it as a game. I hustle and charm the girl until I get her phone number. Then I take her out to dinner and try to score. If she doesn’t come through, maybe I take her out again, maybe not. It depends on how attractive she is, what I think my chances are, a lot of things. But once I make it, I’m not interested in her any more. I don’t call her again. I mean, sure, I would like to get married some day but I wouldn’t be serious about any girl I found in a place like this. I figure if I can pick her up, someone else can too, and I wouldn’t marry a woman like that. You’d always be thinking about how many guys she’s had and whether she might do it again.
When it comes to a marriage-focused relationship, looks are important to me but I have to be able to communicate with her too. My first girlfriend was a high school dropout and not attractive. It was my first sexual experience so I was mesmerized. It was like a new toy. After a year, the novelty of sex with her wore off and I couldn’t stand her. I would try to carry out conversations with her and I would get frustrated by her inability to catch up with ideas. She was a good cook, though. It went on for another year and a half so I could go on having sex. I felt I needed it. It was like a comfortable shoe. After that, I just couldn’t take it anymore so I broke it off. I was active in the dating game after that, then paused for a while until I met my present fiancée.” — [name withheld]
Today, many men exhibit a typical double standard: they don’t think premarital sex is necessarily morally wrong for men or for women, BUT they don’t want to marry a woman who has acted as they do towards casual sex and engaged with multiple partners. Their attitude is more pragmatic than moral. If they can pick a woman up and seduce her so easily, other men can do it also and may do so in the future. This type of double standard reflects the dynamics of male investment. Men resist investing heavily—emotionally, financially, materially—when other men have invested little in order to have sex with her.
Some so-called playboys who enjoy “easy girls” internally have high standards when it comes to choosing a wife. How he found her. Where he found her. What kind of mindset she has. How she will raise the kids. What kind of future they will build together.
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SINGLES SUMMIT 2023: WHAT WOMEN WANT IN MEN
I think a lot of men divorce sex from relationships and feelings. The one thing I am looking for is a relationship with a lot of communication. Real honest talking. Most men don’t want to talk. They want to go out, and go to dinner, and have sex. I talk openly to them if they want to listen, but they seldom do. I want to be friends, but not many men want to do that. Every man that I’ve ever gone out with has just wanted to go to bed. They say right on the first date, “I think you’re attractive. I want to make love to you. Let’s just make love.” I don’t understand why sex is so important to men. So many of their actions seem to be dominated by their arousal.
I would like to go out with a man and have a really good time and have him drive me home. I could kiss him on the cheek, or he could kiss me on the cheek, and we would look at each other and say, “I really had a good time. What are you doing tomorrow?” I would love to have a man court me, bring me flowers, all those things. But it just doesn’t happen. Sex always comes up first. Many men say jokingly that you’re supposed to put out by the third date—at the latest! I think they are only half joking. I would love to have that kind of sexual attraction held in the background for a while. I love it when it’s an undercurrent—when you know it’s there, but it hasn’t become obvious yet. Then it’s a lot more fun and meaningful when you do become sexual.” — [name withheld]
Today, many women cannot understand why men apparently do not want the same things as they do in order to enjoy a loving relationship. These women want sexual intercourse to be part of a relationship that includes attention, affection, caring, verbal intimacy, and sexual fidelity.
Most men, on the other hand, appear to enjoy sex for its own sake, without these accompaniments. They also enjoy having sex with a variety of partners and expend a great deal of effort to do so. These male desires are so foreign to some women that they are incomprehensible. Some other women feel they have been victims of these male desires.
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